Yesterday my daughter came running up to me exclaiming, "44 More Days! 44 More Days!"
She's the countdown queen always counting down to the next big event. Skipping, singing...44 more days! As soon as the jubilant words were in earshot, I was overcome with a huge sense of anxiety. My heart began racing. Adrenaline was coursing through my extremities.
Even though I'd like to think I know myself pretty well, it's amazing how God continues to reveal aspects of inner thinking continually. Just when I think I have most things figured out...I realize I don't. One area I've realized He may be working on is the ability to receive graciously.
A few night's ago, as I was driving home from a friend's house, I was thinking on this last year and the generosity of family and friends. I was overcome with overwhelming gratitude, but also a sense of overwhelming indebtedness! Tears streamed down my face as I thought on recent gifts we've received. Christmas may have brought on more emotions than normal, but I realized although I'm so grateful for the gifts, I also have a hard time receiving them.
I spent the last few days since the tearful drive trying to unpack the reservations I have with receiving. Why is it so hard? Why do I feel indebtedness along with gratitude?
Here's some of what I came up with:
1) Receiving is difficult when I feel I didn't earn it. I have a strong work ethic and value earning what is received. If I didn't work for it, I have a hard time accepting it.
2) I love giving. If you're familiar with the 5 Love Languages, giving is one of the ways I show love to others. I love pouring out on others, but having others pour out on me is difficult. I honestly feel bad for those giving. Maybe there's a sense I don't feel worth the gift. There are a number of stories of times I'm sure my parents could share of loser boyfriends taking advantage of an extravagantly giving girlfriend. I think I've tried to justify this over the years, but deep down I think I internalized, I wasn't worth giving to.
3) Keeping it even. Like most people and family members I tend to keep it even. By keeping the giving even, no one feels left out. I spend $25, you spend $25. Even! This type of giving allows all recipients to leave on balanced terms. But, when I give a $25 gift yet receive a $100 gift, I feel awkward, and unbalanced. The $25 gift, although nice, pales in light of the $100 gift. When this happens to me I feel like a loser, baby! Now, if I gave the $100 gift and received the $25 gift, no problem. This practice is okay in my world.
4) Payback. When receiving an extravagant gift I feel like I need to write up an I.O.U. When my hub and I purchased our first home two family members loaned us some money to complete the purchase. We both felt so indebted, within the first year we had paid back both parties. One family member said, in all their years of giving/lending we were the only ones to pay back. I loved that. I never want to take advantage of an extravagant giver.
5) Remember when... Lastly, I think I have a hard time receiving because I never want to have a gift held over my head. In tough times, I never want someone to say, "Remember when I gave you ____?" In a sense I don't want to feel owned by someone's giving. Maybe it's pride? Who knows?
This whole experience has caused me to once again reflect on salvation- the most amazing, free, no strings attached GIFT of all! When I was 8-years old I accepted Christ. My world was full of faith and I wanted to have a relationship with Christ, although I did not understand what this meant. Through my teen years and early 20's I ditched much of my faith for the world. The result was a BIG, tangled mess of a life.
In my mid-twenties my relationship with Christ got back on track. I recommitted my life and began the slow journey back. I strongly believe God allows growth at a rate which you can handle. I had a lot of learning to do and a lot of dealing with my "stuff."
I think the hardest thing I dealt with accepting was grace. I didn't allow myself much grace and could not imagine a Holy God pouring out grace on such a wretch as me.
A memory from about 20 years ago that is etched in my mind was the night I REALLY understood and embraced this salvation Christ was offering with no strings attached; no expectations in return; nothing to be earned; just a free gift! I had just finished an evening class at Bible Study Fellowship. I don't remember what we were studying or what the lecture was even about. All I remember was going to my car; sitting in the driver's seat; and being hit with the enormity of the gift Christ poured out on me.
I had this vision of Him saying, "Bring it; all your heartache; all you sin; all your stuff you don't want the world to see or know about; Bring it! I will take it. I willingly take your sin and shortcomings so you can be clean. I have made the sacrifice. Release it."
Up to this point, I don't think I truly understood the sacrifice Christ made for me. Yet, in my car I sensed Perfect Jesus so lovingly letting me know He died for my sin so I could be free from the heaviness and the burden of it. I couldn't imagine how he voluntarily would take on my yucky sins when he was without sin, but He promises to do so. There was nothing more I could do to earn freedom from this sin. I could not work my way out of it. I just needed to receive it!
Ephesians 2:8-9 reads,"For by grace you have been saved through faith-and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God; not by works, so that no one can boast."
The Bible tells us salvation is a free gift; not a gift through works.
For a gift giver; who does not receive well; who thinks all gifts must be earned; this is a concept that is really hard to embrace.
Over the years I've accepted God's gift and embraced it with gratitude, but this Christmas I feel like he's wanting me to learn to accept gifts from others. It's a strange thing and really difficult.
A dear friend, who has been so generous, recently said to me something like, "This is your time to receive the gift."
Although difficult, I am trying. Breaking the faulty thought processes attached to receiving is hard.
I'm hoping 2012 brings new lessons to learn, but for today I will be filled with gratitude!
Thank you Mikey, Mom, Dad, Gommer P., Gommer Wally, Grandpa Wallace, Jama, Suzie, Denise, Jennifer and John, and my three amazingly giving children!
I hate The Vest. There are few things in life I really dislike to the point of using the "H" word, but the vest is one of them.
First off, I should explain The Vest. Like many Washingtonians, my Grandma has a fleece vest. I don't even know how many years she's worn the vest. It's like it's always been. My Grandma...The Vest.
Being from Washington, fleece is the fashion wear of choice. It's warm. It seems to wick the rain. It's easy to find. It hides unwanted pounds. The benefits are countless.
I'll admit, before moving to California I had a red, boxy, unflattering fleece pull-over that was like a security blanket. No matter what size I was, the fleece covered it. I could be 40 pounds heavier, wear the fleece and no one knew the difference. The fleece was cozy, and warm, but it was also unflattering, worn and tired. Despite some reservations, I moved it out and surprisingly haven't missed it.
I realize people have favorite clothes they continue to wear despite how they look. I'm sure the What Not To Wear folks would have a heyday in my closet! There are those favorites that are just so cozy, you can't help but wear at night or when it's cold outside. I have a pair of awful, yet cozy, black, fleece hammer pant sweats. They are completely unflattering, but on a chilly day, I'll wear them to the gym along with my REI blue mountain socks. I know the combo is a fashion faux pas, but they're comfortable and cozy and nothing else seems to matter.
Like my red fleece pull-over or black hammer pant sweats, my Grandma has a tan, tired, old, worn-out, dingy, boxy, unflattering, did I mention ugly, fleece vest. She loves this piece of clothing. She loves that it has "inside" pockets. Inside pockets are the backs of outside pockets that have to have a place to go. She stashes her phone in her "inside pocket" when she walks with her senior friends. She wears little angel pins on the collar in memory of family members who have passed away. Along with the vest, she wears a white, long-sleeve, ribbed turtleneck. She actually owns three identical white turtleneck sweaters. The white sweaters, along with the fleece vest, a pair of light blue jeans and white Easy Spirits equals "The Uniform."
This photo was taken years ago. The uniform with a blue ribbed turtleneck.
She's worn this uniform for years and she LOVES it!
Last Christmas when she visited, I took her shopping looking for a replacement vest. We searched high and low from Macy's to Eddie Bauer to JCPenney and beyond, but there was no vest to be found that was roomy enough and met the "inside pocket" criteria.
We did find her a couple new ribbed turtleneck sweaters to offer her some different color options. I doubt she's ever worn them. My guess is they are folded beautifully in her drawer along with the MANY other beautifully folded, new sweaters we've tried to introduce into her wardrobe.
Prior to her visit, I called her to let her know I planned to take her to see Andrea Boccelli and Dr. Phil. We had to discuss wardrobe requirements and ideas. According to the Dr. Phil show guidelines, audience guests were asked not to wear white as it doesn't show up well on camera. In addition, the fleece vest isn't Andrea Boccelli material, so she needed to bring some more options.
With my mom's help, she packed some very cute dressy clothes. Thank you mom! I was secretly hoping "The Vest" wouldn't make the trip down to SoCal, but that was a lot to ask for.
I spoke with my mom the morning of my Grandma's flight. My mom told me, "She'll be there in her uniform. She's so excited!"
The Vest was coming back for it's third Christmas in SoCal.
Bummer!
When we picked my Grandma up she was wearing her light blue jeans, white Easy Spirits, white turtleneck and gray coat.
We went out to lunch, stopped by the Goodwill (her favorite place), and then headed home.
She unpacked and settled in.
She then came to me and asked where she had put her vest.
I hadn't seen the vest at this point, and hadn't even missed it.
She searched multiple times through the car and her suitcase, but did not find the beloved vest.
She thought she definitely left the vest hanging in the restroom of the airport.
I called. No vest.
I didn't want to celebrate the vest's demise, but I strongly feel everything happens for a reason. Just like the time our son spit his pacifier down a flushing toilet and it was bye-bye binky; it was time to break the bond with the vest. It was meant to be! The vest was gone.
Sadly, she was torn up about the vest. A couple times while sitting in the rocker thinking she'd say, "I sure miss my vest."
Poor Grandma, she did love that vest.
When she left I went on a shopping hunt.
I found a PERFECT, new, black, Columbia fleece vest WITH inside pockets. I took a photo of it; emailed it to my mom. We had thought we found the PERFECT replacement that my Grandma would love!
I packaged it up and shipped it out. She would be so surprised! I was excited!
THEN, I got the call.
My heart sank.
The Seattle airport had found her vest.
RATS!
I guess the super-cute, black fleece vest I got her will sadly join the bowels of her drawers folded neatly alongside the other perfectly folded new clothing we've all bought her over the years.
The Vest is back.
Do you have a favorite piece of clothing like my Grandma's vest that you know you shouldn't wear, but it just feels too good?
Maybe 2012 is a good year to spruce up the wardrobe and move out those pieces that have served their time. Let them rest. Find something cute and flattering and say good-bye to tired and worn.
We live in a Santa culture. It's the truth. And as much as I don't care for the over-materialized frenzy December brings, it doesn't appear to be falling out of fashion.
Our kids grow up singing, "You better watch out, you better not cry, better not pout, I'm telling you why...Santa Claus is coming to town." They watch shows like The Grinch,The Santa Claus,Rudolph and of course,Santa Claus is Coming to Town. We hang stockings, write wish lists and letters, and set out cookies and milk before bedtime on Christmas Eve. We visit Kris Kringle better known as Santa Claus at local malls, whisper wishes in his ear and have our photos taken with him.
Our kids with Santa
This year I surprised my Grandma and told her she was also having her photo taken with Santa.
She was a little embarrassed, but also seemed a little excited!
It really is a crazy thing if you think about it, but this is what Christmas American tradition looks like and I'm guessing there are similar themes around the globe. Worldwide, Santa may have a different name, but children still await the magical experience and the gifts.
I love the story of the original Santa, St. Nicholas, and share it with our kids. The sacrifice he made to help others is admirable.
So, St. Nicolas, the first true Santa was a gift-giver! Giving the gift, providing for the dowry of three young women so they could marry and not be sold into slavery.
Thinking on the dowry...although we don't have a necessary dowry requirement in our culture any longer, around the world this tradition continues. Years ago, I helped raise money for some friends in Uganda to pay a dowry of cows, goats, fruit etc. A friend of mine is currently helping a young man in Uganda raise his dowry so he may marry. St. Nicholas would be proud!
The couple we helped now have two beautiful girlies!
Back to Santa...
On the night before Christmas, our daughter set out a plate of cookies and cup of milk. After setting out the treats, she proceeded to place an important letter she wrote to Santa next to the treats.
Her letter read:
hi Santa i have a question
was there a hole bunch of santa's or just one
check yes or no
and if yes plese say how many and plese wake me up to see you
yes___ no___
how meny?
The letter was genuine and heartfelt. She anticipated his visit, but even more hoped for a response.
The next morning she rushed downstairs to see if he had responded.
Here's what she found...
Dearest Arabella,
Merry Christmas!
You are such a smart young girl! That’s what I love about you. I heard about your big win with the essay contest. Well Done!
So your question…How many Santa’s are there? Well, my dear, there is just one yet there are many people in your life who show you love, generosity and joy. We all work together to make this life magical, exciting and a much better place to live in.
I love your honest questions, childlike faith and heartfelt curiosity. Hold on to these traits.
I am sorry My Dear, but I can’t visit. I must be off! Hawaii is waiting for me!
Blessings to you!
And always remember who were celebrating this season- Jesus! He is the giver of All Good and Perfect Gifts!
You are Loved!
So there was the response. She was very excited about it and stashed it away in her "box" where all good things are kept.
Parenting can sometimes bring up tough questions. I don't honestly know how to answer every question that comes up. There are instances where I'm not sure if we're doing the right thing or not.
Determining how one chooses to handle and/or answer questions surrounding Santa is up to each particular family. There are absolutes in life and ultimately the truth is the best answer, but I like to preserve wonder and merriment when possible too.
There was a St. Nicholas. He was a gift giver. Additionally, there are people in our lives who work to bring about joy in keeping the magic of the season alive. Christmas is a magical season! We celebrate God coming to earth as a baby born unto a virgin! WOW!
It is all about Jesus, and it's also about gifts, family, celebration and fun!
Some explanations are best left to be dreamed of and wondered about. The joy in our child's eyes, her innocent questions, and the hope she has is a surprisingly wonderful gift to us.
Oh my word! Has this month just flown by or what? My kids have reminded me once again there are only 2 days until Christmas (really just one since all the festivities are tomorrow). Unbelievable! I don't like how quickly the days have passed. This isn't what I had envisioned for our December.
Every year I hope to EXPERIENCE Christmas in some sort of amazing way. My vision is to not procrastinate. In the perfect world I'd have presents wrapped, cookies baked, and cards sent by December 1st. Every week we'd light an advent candle and focus on why we're celebrating: Christ's birth. Then I'd spend the next 24 days laying under the tree, gazing at the lights, playing games with our kids and listening to Christmas music until we fall asleep. It all sounds so beautifully romantic. Love it!
But...
That's not my life at all.
Instead, it's December 23 and I'm behind, or maybe I'm on time (Kim time). I remind myself, every year there is onlyone year to plan and prepare, yet I still can't seem to pull it together. Recently, I read a post about moms who do a whole lot of Crazy Elf on the {Stinkin'} Shelf thing. I do not know even what this is, but there's no way I could squeeze it into the schedule. Here's the link to the funny read, minus the *!@#$%^!! words.
In contrast here's my current "To Do" list update:
I just got the Christmas cards out yesterday. Hopefully friends will receive them by the 24th, but there's no guarantee.
Packages were just mailed in the last couple days. I hope they arrive on time too. Day after delivery just isn't as exciting as before Christmas delivery.
I didn't do much baking. I did make gingerbread cookies twice, and they're cut outs, so I think they count for double points. I really wanted to give baked goods as gifts to neighbors, milkman, postman and garbage man, but it hasn't happened yet and we won't have garbage day until after Christmas. Poor garbage man.
We never got around to the advent thing. Our kids know it's about Jesus. I have to be okay with that.
I had hoped to read a book a day to the kids with a Christmas theme. Well, we only read two Christmas picture books, but they were good ones: The Polar Express and Twas the Night Before Christmas. I realize neither one was about Jesus. I hope our kids get what this celebration is all about; now that I think on it again.
I really wanted to laugh (since I can turn into a stressed-out-grouchy-Christmas-prep mom) and watch Elf as a family. It was on the advent calendar. We received it from Netflix, then we lost it. It's here somewhere, but no one is 'fessin' up to where they stashed it.
And because we can't find Elf to mail back, we aren't able to watch the other Christmas movies in our Queue. Bummer! Guess we'll have to watch them in January and pretend it's still the Christmas season.
Then there's the crafty gift project I started 3 years ago. I was going to complete it this year. It's still in the closet. RATS!
I just sat down to look at the Christmas game/toy catalog. Perhaps I'll make the online order today and place the invoice in a box for the kids. That's pretty lame, I know. Merry Christmas! Your gifts should arrive in 7-10 days.
Since I have so much to do in preparation for Christmas and feel overwhelmed over it, I think I'll procrastinate a bit more and ponder a few of my Top Christmas Songs.
In years past, it seems like there were radio stations dedicated to month-long Christmas music. It doesn't seem like it's the case anymore. We've listened to Pandora Holiday Music channels. It's been nice, but I haven't been playing my fave Christmas tunes, so I thought I'd blog them. By blogging them I feel like they're getting much deserved attention.
These favorites may not be your favorites, but I like them. I was raised listening to these tunes and despite some of the crazy lyrics, I LOVE THEM! Not included are favorites like Michael Buble, Manheim Steamroller, Bing Crosby, etc. The only songs that made it to the list are the ones I've listened to over 1000 times (I'm exaggerating, but you get the idea).
I'll count down from #10-#1. #1 being my current favorite.
10. It's Christmas All Over The World by New Edition
Okay, I know I'll probably get the cheesey award for this one, but I was a big New Edition fan! The video quality here is pretty crummy, since it's a Solid Gold recording. Someone must have had it on VHS. Check out the moves!
9. All I Want For Christmas Is You by Mariah Carey
I had to do it! Mariah & Christmas music from the 90's! But here's an updated {somewhat creepy} of Mariah and Justin Beiber. There's a huge part of me that feels despite how fabulous Mariah looks, looking sexy with the Beib singing All I Want For Christmas Is You is just Mary Kay Latourneau-ish creepy.
8. Christmas Wrap by the Waitresses
This song just may be on the obnoxious Christmas song list for some, but it brings back great 80's memories for me. It reminds me of high school, turtlenecks, crew neck sweaters and wandering the snowy streets of an extremely small mid-western town.
7. Rocky Mountain Christmas by John Denver
I have to give #7 to a whole album. This is one of my all-time favorite albums; probably because I grew up listening to it. My hub hates it! I torture him with the songs of Aspenglow and of course Please, Daddy Don't Get Drunk This Christmas. Not sure how that's a Christmas song and I never had a drunk daddy so this song never bothered me. It was just another track on the album. John Denver was a favorite at our home when I was growing up and I'm still sad he's no longer here.
6. Breath of Heaven by Amy Grant
This song is written in Mary's perspective. I love that! I desperately want to know what she thought and how she felt to be chosen to carry Jesus. This video was recorded at the Crystal Cathedral. I took my Grandma there a couple years ago to see their Christmas program. We had another great experience!
5. The Prayer by Celine Dion with Andrea Boccelli
The lyrics to this beautiful song are amazing! May this always be our prayer!
I pray you'll be our eyes, and watch us where we go
And help ;us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer, when we lose our way
Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe
I pray we'll find your light, and hold it in our hearts
When stars go out each night,
remind us where you are
Let this be our prayer, when shadows fill our day
Help us find a place guide us with your grace
Give us faith so we'll be safe
A world where pain and sorrow will be ended
And every heart that's broken will be mended
And we'll remember we are all God's children
Reaching out to touch you
Reaching to the sky
We ask that life be kind, and watch us from above
We hope each soul will find another soul to love
Let this be our prayer, just like every child
Who needs to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so we'll be safe
Needs to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so we'll be safe
4. O Holy Night by Celine Dion
"Fall on Your Knees" Brings me to tears. If you have a relationship with Christ and really know him, this song has such a special meaning. I know all heaven and earth celebrated the birth of God's son! "Let all within us praise His name. Christ is the LORD!"
3. Mary Did You Know performed by Greg Otterholt
I think the first time I heard this song Greg was singing it. We were blessed to get to know he and his wife years ago when I was selling real estate. He has an amazing voice!
I love this song because the lyrics ask the questions floating around my mind. I would love to sit down with the heroins of the Bible and soak them up, ask them what it was really like and gain their perspective.
2. Sleigh Ride by Arthur Fiedler's Philharmonic
This song reminds me of being a kid. Listening to the clomping noises thrilled me. AND the best part is the "neigh" at the end!
1. How Many Kings by Downhere
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE this song! I can't get enough of it! When I listen to it, tears run down my cheeks. I'm so honored to have such a King!
Well, back to reality. Wish me luck as I try to conquer the unfinished in my life. AND....as if I didn't have enough to do I scheduled a mammogram for today!
A number of years ago, God placed "the orphan" so heavily on my heart I could scarcely think of little else. I read amazing stories of adoption, read blogs concerning orphans, prayed for and helped friends financially who were in the process of adoption and humbly asked God to make adoption a reality in our family.
I meditated on James 1:27
27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
At that time, it was estimated that there were 143 million orphans worldwide. There is no way one cannot be astounded by such a number. (See the rice post if you want to have a visual of 143 million). I read a couple days ago the number is now hovering around 163 million!!
My heart aches for ALL these children who do not have a family to call their own.
The prayer became, "Lord, use us to reach the orphan." Making a difference to one or a few of them is what each of is called to do.
Over the years we've met, hosted, sponsored and cared for orphans as God continues to bring them into our lives.
Childcare Worldwide formed the Ugandan Orphan's Choir to "bring a message of hope to American audiences through the traditional rhythmic dances and songs ofAfrica."
Back in September of 2006 our church scheduled to have the choir perform. To defray costs, the choir asks churches to host the chaperones and kids. I literally JUMPED at the opportunity when our pastor asked for volunteering homes.
After the church service, I walked up to him as a line of other interested families was forming. I quickly let him know I sensed they were SUPPOSED to be at our home.
He agreed.
All five boys and the male chaperone to the choir were placed with us for a 2-3 day stay.
We cleaned, readied our home, and welcomed the boys with open arms.
Little did I know, 2 days with these kids ROCKED my world. My heart's desire to live out James 1:27 was fueled.
These boys arrived with nothing but a backpack, but they exuded JOY like I'd never seen before. All of them had lost one or both of their parents to the AIDS epidemic. They were delivered from near disaster and placed in a Children's Village where they now received housing, food, clothing, character development and an education.
Prior to being rescued by Childcare, some of these young children (under 13) are found caring for their younger siblings because their parents have died. Some of these children bury their own parents. Some are left in the care of older grandparents who do not have the means nor the strength to care for them. It's heartbreaking!
Childcare Worldwide steps in and offers these children hope for a better future.
One of these boys in particular found a place in our hearts. His name is Ivan. We were able to spend Christmas 2006 with Ivan and another boy from the choir, Alex. Both boys are dear to us.
Christmas 2006
With Alex
With Ivan
Alex helped me roll out lefse while the other boys played. Sadly, we have not heard from Alex since his stay with us.
Alex: "This Chapati?" Me: "No, this is lefse. Another flatbread."
Although my husband has not received a heart for adoption as I have, when he met Ivan he said, "He would fit in our family." Ivan's photo is on a shelf in our family room with other family photos. We will forever think of him as a special member of our family.
This is the photo we received last year from Ivan.
He has GROWN so much!
Adoption of the kids from the choir is not an option, and adoption from Uganda is difficult to say the least, but we've been blessed to have the opportunity to stay in contact with Ivan and hopefully one day we will meet him again.
We've never learned much about Ivan and his life prior to coming to Childcare. What we do know is he has a genuinely kind disposition and became instant friends with our oldest son.
We got a letter from Ivan this week. Ivan's now 16 years old and loves to play soccer. He's doing very well in school. Childcare Worldwide's goal is to have the children receive quality education and training in a profession so they may not just survive, but succeed! I think Ivan will break out of the cycle of poverty and succeed in whatever he chooses!
If you feel a tug at your heart when you see kids like Ivan, do something about it. Visit Childcare Worldwide's website. You never know when you'll get to meet your sponsored child. We were able to meet our sponsored child, Caleb last year. That's another story and another post.
When my mom heard we were baking gingerbread cookies recently she requested I send some back with my Grandma when she returned home. The problem for my mom in that is she suffers from Celiac Disease. After years of health struggles, she was finally diagnosed.
There's a minimal chance I could one day be diagnosed with Celiac Disease. I limit my intake, not so much in concern with having Celiac, but because I hang out with a paleo-ish crowd. More and more people seem to be limiting gluten, wheat and rice intake. I've seen this especially prevalent in the CrossFit world. Limiting processed foods and eating REAL food is definitely beneficial to the body. Although this is a bit of a contradiction to the yummy desserts and foods I've been posting lately, we do primarily eat paleo-ish.
Thinking of my mom and her desire to have gingerbread cookies, I wanted to find a recipe for cookies she could enjoy that wouldn't cause her issues.
I found a recipe on noursishingmeals.com that fit the bill. Granted, many of their recipes have ingredients I do not readily have on hand and I do not want to go out and spend $50 on ingredients to make one batch of cookies. Consequently, I used what I had and I think the cookies turned out GREAT! They are soft and chewy and have just a hint of ginger and molasses. I may increase the ginger a bit next time, but they taste great the way they are. Appearance wise, they're a bit on the wrinkly side, but I'm a bit on the wrinkly side so, so they pass the test.
Despite the appearance they are chewy soft goodness!
Nourishing meals recommended using hazelnut flour and provided a link to buy some on Amazon. I don't have the desire or the inkling to order flour on Amazon so I just used ground almond meal flour found in the grocery store bulk section (Sprouts carries it).
Also, they recommended using coconut sugar. I purchased some in the Whole Foods bulk section when I was originally going to make these cookies, but used it for something else. I ended up using raw turbinado sugar from Whole Foods 365 brand. It's a finer sugar than other raw sugar brands. I would steer away from using a raw sugar that has granules as large as something like Sugar in the Raw. The granules don't really break down well in the cookie dough.
I know my mom isn't as crazy about the frosting, so we didn't frost these cookies much. Unlike my sweetheart and kiddies, I prefer to have cookies unfrosted also. They're much too sweet with the extra sweetness lathered on top.
Gluten-Free Gingerbread Cookies
Dry Ingredients
2 cups ground almond meal flour
1 cup sweet rice flour
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon sea salt
2 teaspoons cinnamon
1 teaspoon ground ginger
1/8 teaspoon nutmeg
Wet Ingredients
1 cup coconut sugar (or raw turbinado sugar- fine granules)
1/2 cup softened butter
1/4 cup molasses
1 large egg
2 teaspoons vanilla
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Combine dry ingredients in a large bowl. Mix well.
In an electric mixer combine wet ingredients. Mix well.
Add dry ingredients.
Wrap dough in plastic wrap and chill for a couple hours.
Roll dough out to 1/4" thickness on surface sprinkled with sweet rice flour. Using cookie cutters carefully cut out shapes and place on parchment paper lined cookie sheet or on Silpat baking mat. If you don't have a Silpat, add it to your Christmas list. My mother-in-law gave me one for Christmas a couple years back and I LOVE IT! Thank you MIL!
Bake 12-15 minutes. If you bake them closer to the 12 minutes they with be soft and chewy. If baked closer to the 15 minutes they will be crisper.
Ready for the oven
Our Peeps
Best Dressed!
Glamour Shot
This is a GREAT treat to enjoy with a cup of coffee, or perhaps the Christmas eggnog latte!
Mom, watch your mailbox...we're sending some friends your way! Merry Christmas!
With just a click here or there on the internet, we are introduced to so many fabulous ideas to inspire creativity from sites like Pinterest and other random crafty blogs. This year, with the help of my GREAT 8-year-old, behind-the-scenes motivator, I wanted to make an easy, yet attractive advent calendar we could use for years. My girlie wrote a count-down-to-Christmas list. Just about every day in December had an activity assigned to it. We just needed a great way to display her ideas.
I found the following idea from Simple Mom. We made some changes and created our own variation of the advent calendar.
Begin with an empty frame. We happened to have one just stashed away awaiting a good use. It already matched our decor.
Attach ribbon to the back. At first I tried a glue dot, but it wasn't heavy enough to hold the tags. I then tried tape. Fail. Lastly I pulled out the big guns and used Gorilla Glue. The ribbons are now secure.
Our ribbons were about 2.5" apart
I found K & CompanyBrenda Walton specialty paper at JoAnne's. In the paper pad it had a couple sheets that had numbers 1-25 on it plus some other holiday/Christmas designs.
I purchased paper tags measuring approximately 5.25" X 2.5" and placed a number and the activity on each tag. Next, position the tags. We used two colors; white and manila tags. It wasn't part of the original plan, but as crafts go, the craft store only had one tag pack left of each. Turns out, I like the look. We added a couple more events in between the numbered dates.We then clipped them to the ribbon using red metal binder clips found at Staples.
Positioning the tags
Each year we can adjust the activities as desired. It's a fun project, that was quick to complete and adds Christmas cheer to our living room.
And every year when we make these yummy Christmas treats, I think of one of the scariest experiences I've had as a momma.
December 2004, I was home alone with the kids. My hub was working nights. The kids and I were gathered in the kitchen mixing up a batch of Melissa's Gingerbread Cookies from The Martha Stewart Cookbook. The kids were sitting on the counter helping add ingredients to the mixer. I was standing right next to them.
Unexpectedly, our 1 1/2 year old girlie spun around and then fell backwards off the counter and hit her head on the hardwood floor. It all happened so quickly AND I was right there. How it happened still boggles my mind. Immediately after she fell, I scooped her up. She was unconscious, back arched. Quickly, I called 911 and within 7 minutes two sets of responders descended upon our home. The boys and I were so frightened. My girlie was conscious again, but lethargic.
After examination, the paramedics decided to transport us to the hospital for further evaluation.
In the ambulance the boys told the paramedic we were homeschoolers. She proceeded to give them a field trip of the inside of the ambulance. Meanwhile I held my precious girlie. While at home, I was strong and clear thinking, but during the transport, the enormity of the whole event began to hit me. Suddenly, I sensed a panic attack coming on. The paramedic then placed an oxygen mask over my face for the remainder of the ride. Breathe...
The kids still laugh over their momma's reaction. They tell the story of the time nothing was wrong with their momma, but the paramedic had to give her oxygen.
Weak!
Our girlie ended up having a concussion. Thankfully, nothing else was wrong. She has a good story to go along with one of our family favorite cookies.
This year she drafted up a Christmas Advent list. Making Gingerbread Cookies was our activity for December 1st.
She has a long list of fun activities for us in the month of December. I'm making an easy advent calendar to showcase her ideas.
Our favorite gingerbread cookie recipe. When baking this cookie recipe with the kids, I do the step with the double boiler. It is more of the tedious task. This cookie dough is also dangerously good! Watch out!
1 cup dark molasses
1/2 cup packed light brown sugar
1/2 cup granulated sugar
4 teaspoons ground ginger
4 teaspoons ground cinnamon
3/4 tablespoon baking soda
1/2 pound (2sticks) unsalted butter, at room temperature
2 eggs, lightly beaten
6 cups sifted all-purpose flour
Royal icing
Place the molasses, sugars, ginger, and cinnamon in a double boiler over medium heat. When the sugar has melted, add the baking soda and stir. When the mixture bubbles up, remove from heat.
Place the butter in a large mixing bowl. Add the hot molasses mixture and stir well. Let mixture cool to about 90 degrees F, then add the eggs. Gradually add the flour, 1 cup at a time, while beating. (This is best done in an electric mixer, but you can use a wooden spoon).
Preheat the oven to 325 degrees. Line baking sheets with parchment paper.
Shape the dough into a neat rectangle, place on a well-floured board, and roll out until 1/4 inch thick. Cut into shapes with a cookie cutter. Place on baking sheet and bake 12-18 minutes, or until firm to the touch. Let cool on racks.
Decorate with Royal Icing.
Step one in the double boiler. Stir until sugar has melted.
After the soda is added...bubbly
Ready to roll
Oven ready
Icing is the kids job...my hub decorates with them
Yesterday morning was a big day for kids around the US and possibly the world. The anticipation for what Santa will bring can cause kids sleepless nights (so they claim), anxiety (did we put the milk and cookies out? Did you hear something? Was that a bell ringing? I sure hope I was good this past year), and pure excitement. We tried to play down the whole Santa thing this year and play up the real reason we're celebrating-Jesus's birth. But, even with that being said, looking forward to the wonder or the fulfillment of wishes, hopes and dreams makes this the season of Hope. Even big kids hope that something will happen differently at Christmas time. I think we're geared for expectation and hope. But many people are lost not really knowing what they're supposed to be expecting or hoping for. This year at Macy's they did a Miracle on 34th Street type of card writing to Santa. For each card written to Santa, Macy's donated $1 to the Make a Wish Foundation (I think this is correct). Anyway, our little daughter was so excited to write her letter. She wrote her "Dear Santa" asking for a couple of items. Then to add to it, I asked for something special, something that our dear daughter prays for regularly. On Christmas morning our precious girlie came downstairs, took one look under the tree, and then surprised me. I thought she'd ask, "I wonder if Santa brought the present I asked for?", but instead she said, "I wonder if Santa brought what you (meaning me) asked for? I wonder if he brought the little baby girl from Africa for you. Maybe she's under the tree." How precious is that!! No, we didn't have a little baby girl from Africa under our tree, but that would be quite awesome if we did. But we do have a seed of hope planted in our little girl's heart that hopes for new beginnings, compassion for others and a heart for sharing our family's love with others.
