I love being a stay-at-home-homeschool-mom. I cherish the days spent with our kids. I love teaching them, spending time with them, laughing with them, learning from them, doing activities with them, and having an hour of silence away from them so I can recharge, regroup, and energize my soul.
Spending hour after hour, day after day with your kids can be emotionally draining. It's so important as a mom, especially a stay-at-home-homeschool-mom, that we get a little bit of time alone or away from the kids to refuel. I find I need about an hour in the morning of silence and a strenuous workout about five days a week to be a focused, loving mom.
Usually I wake up around 6:30-6:45 when the aroma of freshly brewed coffee wafts to our room. My sweetheart , who doesn't drink coffee, started making my morning brew this year. I'm so blessed! I get up, make my way downstairs and pour that first cup of coffee. The kids usually don't get up until 7:30-7:45, so I have a wonderful hour of quiet.
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One of my favorite mugs |
I then cozy up in my chair, pull out my Bible, Bible study, journal, book of choice and begin fueling my heart. I love this time. Yearly, I used to set goals to read a book a month (this would be an adult book that would further my spiritual development, a biography, fiction, etc., not a children's book), but found as a mom of toddlers this was hard to achieve. I was perpetually exhausted dragging myself through the day. If I sat down to read, I'd fall asleep. I found I needed smaller segment goals to accomplish the book a month. My goal now is to enjoy at least 10 pages per day. Ten pages
is doable and I find I often can sneak in additional pages throughout the day or at bedtime. I'm able to read more than a book a month now with this little system.
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My escape |
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My Pile |
Just looking at the photos makes me want to run downstairs. I missed my time today. I was awakened at 7:10 when a little blond headed girlie cozied up in my bed. Oh no! I slept in! I missed the
alone time bus! As much as she loves to cuddle, I couldn't just immediately run from the bed, but I realized I had missed
my time. Immediately, I felt stressed. No morning alone time for this momma. Overcome with the sense of being behind before the day even began, grumpiness was my mood of this morning. Not a mean grumpiness, just a bummed out, missed my opportunity for alone time grumpiness.
We've done most of our morning schooling. The kids are working on math. I'm escaping for a moment. Soon I'll head back downstairs to make lunch. Maybe while they're eating, I'll sneak away to my chair, grab my book and get my 10 pages in.
Some days I just have to roll with it. I guess I needed that extra 1/2 hour of sleep this morning and I should be thankful for it.
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